After years of working in the television & film industry I slowed down a bit to get married to a really amazing man and have our one singular sensation, aka our son Ian*. This is both comedy and tragedy because our whole family suffered when the love of my life suffered a head injury in front of 14 family members Father's Day 2004. This traumatic closed head injury changing his personality, in fact his whole being 180 degrees. A traumatic closed head injury or TCHI can be much like a death, except the person is still very much alive, in a very "evil twin" sort of way for us. Every closed head injury is different depending on where the head/brain contact was made. My son and I are still in a rebuilding phase,post divorce because one of the many things my husband didn't like anymore post head injury, was me. This is our story. . .